After much hesitation, I have finally decided to create a blog. Why blog? Well, it's just to keep track of what I have been doing and at the same time, pen down my thoughts (or should I say, type out... :p). Well, neway, things haven't been going smoothly lately. Overloading of work, misunderstanding between colleagues, ain't enough time to settle my stuff, constant migraine and so on, so forth. Whatever it is, life goes on...
I supposed if there's one thing we cannot prevent, I guess it would be office politics. You may strive to become neutral and NOT get involved but somehow or rather, you'll be pulled into it. One of my colleague (whom I have been treating really nice to) actually thought that I backstabbed her in front of my boss (just because I'm quite close to him). This made me really upset because all these while, I have been really nice to her and she has the guts to think like that. I knew about this because I confronted her (I notice that she has been giving me cold shoulder, avoiding eye contact and her body language practically screams "I want to avoid you")and she admitted that she finds me highly suspicious. I told her that whatever she does is not relevant to me (we are in different departments reporting to the same boss) and there's no reason why I should backstab her. But anyway, since I didn't do it, there's practically nothing that I should be afraid of so it's really up to her on what she thinks. One thing I learn from this, we shouldn't be nice to people. Sigh... what a cruel world!
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