I Just Hate Bitches!

I shall repeat it again... I hate bitches and I am gonna make this known to the whole wide world. I've been having problems with a colleague who kept on giving me trouble instead of me giving her one. Guess what? She even bitched about me in front of the person who has got the biggest authority in the company... the GM! Now, it definitely doesn't take a genius to know that she did that to me. Right after her "supplier" lunch meeting with 'da GM, the GM said he wants to talk to me. We spoke and he asked me some really strange questions (tho not direct questions but it does imply something). Well, like what I have mentioned in Facebook, I've never been more happier and it's good to find out her true colours now rather than later. One thing's for sure, I'm gonna cut-off clean with her. The friendship ends and it's gonna be pure colleague relationship. I will not be bothered to even attend to her wedding. She can forget about that.

If there's one thing I learn, don't be nice to people. They will take that person for granted and will even go to the extent of suspecting that person of backstabbing him/her in front of da boss! And that's because da' boss is giving him/her the cold shoulder and that person happens to be close to the boss. This will definitely trigger him/her (who is definitely at fault) to suspect you and thus, bad-mouthed you in front of your other colleagues. Worth it? Nah, I don't think so. -Once bitten, twice shy- To the bitch, you can go fly kite. -End-

Blessed

My grandfather held a birthday celebration at a restaurant at Damansara Kim last night. He's 81 years old, not in the best of health but I can see that he was really happy last night. Now, my grandfather and I wasn't very close (long story, eons ago...) but when I saw him last night, he was close to tears and he wanted a hug from me. I hugged him and he kissed me on the cheek. At that point of time, I was quite touched and honestly, I was about to tear as well. For 28 years, my grandfather had never even bother to hold my hands nor even give me a call to ask about my well being. As such, I have never had a strong bond with him. But seeing him last night, just changed my whole perception towards him. Perhaps, he is getting old and he knows that he doesn't have much time left, so, he wants to make things right. Mom is right, no matter what happens, nothing can change the fact that grandfather is still her father, and he is still my grandfather. When we bid farewell last night, I gave my grandfather a hug and told him that I will pay him a visit whenever I am free. That's a promise... :)

My First Entry

After much hesitation, I have finally decided to create a blog. Why blog? Well, it's just to keep track of what I have been doing and at the same time, pen down my thoughts (or should I say, type out... :p). Well, neway, things haven't been going smoothly lately. Overloading of work, misunderstanding between colleagues, ain't enough time to settle my stuff, constant migraine and so on, so forth. Whatever it is, life goes on...

I supposed if there's one thing we cannot prevent, I guess it would be office politics. You may strive to become neutral and NOT get involved but somehow or rather, you'll be pulled into it. One of my colleague (whom I have been treating really nice to) actually thought that I backstabbed her in front of my boss (just because I'm quite close to him). This made me really upset because all these while, I have been really nice to her and she has the guts to think like that. I knew about this because I confronted her (I notice that she has been giving me cold shoulder, avoiding eye contact and her body language practically screams "I want to avoid you")and she admitted that she finds me highly suspicious. I told her that whatever she does is not relevant to me (we are in different departments reporting to the same boss) and there's no reason why I should backstab her. But anyway, since I didn't do it, there's practically nothing that I should be afraid of so it's really up to her on what she thinks. One thing I learn from this, we shouldn't be nice to people. Sigh... what a cruel world!